Saturday, November 13, 2010

Laughing...why it is sometimes inappropriate...

So the other day Lauren (our oldest) was being really mouthy.  I finally got upset with her and told her that I didn't like the way she was talking to me.  "Don't be lippy with me, Lauren, I'm your mom and as your mom I deserve some respect.  Your dad and I have taught you to be respectful, would you talk that way to your teacher?"  "NO!"  Lauren replies.  "Would you talk that way to any other adult?" I ask.  "Maybe, depends who they are."  She says rather matter of factly. 
Now, I know this was probably the least appropriate time in my parenting career to start laughing, but I was so taken aback by her honesty I couldn't help it.  I burst...
Trying to regain my composure I say "This is not funny!"  Lauren, of course, responds with "then whay are you laughing mom?"  I have to say I responded very honestly, I told her it was because I couldn't believe she was being so honest with me.  I thanked her for being honest, but reminded her to be respectful.  I'm sure that was a lesson lost...oh well- Lauren 1, Mommy 0!

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